Assignment #1
I posted this in my oh-so dear OT forum. everyone there’s pretty much the same demographic as me. Very white and very male.
“All you guys have an assignment. Over the next few days, see if you can fit this into your daily travels. When you’re in a mall, on the sidewalk, wherever… I want you to find a group of girls where there’s at least 2 really good looking ones and one that’s obviously less attractive than the rest. Walk up to the group, and tell the less attractive one she’s hot. Then just kinda smile and walk away. Try to make this look natural, as if she was hotter than the rest. don’t stand and wait for a reaction, but see if you can hear how the others react. Practice in your head a couple times to make sure it seems natural coming out.
Post your results.
-IggDawg”
Later on after a few questions I added:
“Aim for your age group. The object is to make her think that you thought she was pretty enough for you to go out of your way to simply tell her she’s hit. You’re not trying to pick her up, get a phone number, or start a conversation. You want her to see someone come to her for no other reason than to tell her she’s beautiful.
Chances are, even the hot ones have never had this happen to them. They see this happen to the “ugly duckling” and interesting things start to happen. I’m expecting jealousy, but i’ll be interested to see what kinds of results we get.
Since you’re not sticking around to see what the others think, watch their reactions as you’re telling her. do they look at the girl your talking to and say “all right! go tammy!” or whatever, or do they throw glances at eachother as if to say “why not us?”
Say it in a sincere way. no “Hey baby! ur wicked hot!!1!” more like “I just had to come over and say that you’re one of the prettyest girls I’ve seen.” Embelish all you like.
Even “taken” guys can participate if they’re alone in the mall. you’re not “hitting” on anyone. there’s no romance or whatever involved. no expectations. No need to feel bad. I’ll try to make my next assignment more general.
-IggDawg
EDIT: this can’t be done at a club or bar. IT has to be done in a setting where people don’t normally walk up to girls and say “you’re pretty.” ”
So that’s my assignment. I’ll be doing more. Its half to see what kind of reactions come from all members of the target group. Its also to help the people I’m talking to get over confrontation fear. after this sort of thing is done once, it becomes easier to do it again. walking right into the face of something intimidating (a group of cute girls) and speaking up. Call it “male improvement.” I don’t kno wwhere I got the idea, but I did. I’ve already gotten 3 or 4 “I don’t haver the sack” type replies. These are the peopel that really need to do this assignment. This sort of thing is easier to do if they feel like they’re part of a group while doing it.
Track the progress. Its already getting interesting.
http://www.i-club.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=165330
-IggDawg
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